This is what losers do. If you pity yourself you don't respect yourself. If you try to get pity from others you are begging them to disrespect you. When people feel bad for you they do not respect you.
"Pain or damage don't end the world. Or despair or fucking beatings. The world ends when you are dead, until then ya got more punishment in store. Stand it like a man and learn to give some back." - Al Swarenjen